WELCOME TO HEARTBREAK

Break ups are hard. Not just for one side but both.

I think alot of times, when relationships end or are suspended, it is assumed that the person initiating the break up is cool with it. However this isn't always true.

People don't always end relationships because there aren't feelings there, or they're completely tired of the individual. Sometimes relationships end because the person initiating it has to not only look out for their counterparts long term emotional well being but their own as well.

With that being said sometimes there are circumstances where one must realize that they are unable to put 100% into a relationship, and in order to sacrifice their present happiness for their long term happiness they must make decisions that they may regret and waiver on, but realize that in the longterm or for the short longterm that it will be beneficial for both parties involved.

I haven't met 1 PERSON who wants to be or likes breaking hearts. (If you kno one I stand corrected). Noone wants to hurt the person they care the most about. Some may deal with it better than others but it is never something that the people involved look forward to.

To love someone takes alot from me (I can't speak for everyone). One of the hardest things that I can do is break down and let someone in and really get to kno me. So for me to love someone that person has to kno that they will always hold a special place with me and can always ask for help or support and I would be the first person there. To be in love with someone takes even more work on my part and is almost contradictory to my personality. With that also being stated

LOVE DOESN'T CONQUER ALL

Sometimes you have to set aside your selfishness and do what's right for everyone. It may hurt but if it's one thing I've learned in my life, it's that LIFE SUCKS AND YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE BEST OF IT AND LEARN FROM EVERY ENCOUNTER.